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Trust!

Being husband and wife need to be transparent to each other. hence, both should be comfortable with the limited privacy. limited privacy doesnt means no trust, it means show respect too. like hubby respect the wife, so he informed the wife where he is going and with who.. tat kind. doesnt necessarily means that the wife dun trust the husband hence husband need to report.


Women Like Badasses?!

Women don't like to be ill treated but they like to work for their attention.

Imagine a scenario where every guy in the room flocks over her, you barge in and give her a piece of your mind.

1) You're different from rest of the guys.
2) You DARE to be different.
3)by taking the road less traveled, you already created an impression on her mind.

No women in the right mind wants to be abused or beaten, but neither can they live with de average joe.Women need to feel that the man is special and thus individuality comes into play. When you're with her, you're not just 'another guy she dates' but rather footprints itself.Identity itself is a form of charisma, so don't be a badass, nor a doormat for girls to trample on.Women likes to be valued, appreciated,respected. Yet sometimes they also need to rant and b**ch.

A women will never have one type of mood through even a single day, let alone your whole life with her. They have mixed feelings. Accumulated thoughts, details. If you wanna know what's a mixed feeling, try having a orgasm and a leg cramp, both at a same time. pun intended.So my advice is, don't be total jerk, but somewhere in de middle. Play nice when you need to, and naughty when situation arises.

When we're young, single and carefree, we can deal with adventurous men who dump and ill-treated us. After all, badasses look more appealing and handsome, no? And it's challenging trying to 'tame' a badass rather than a nice guy. It makes us feel more powerful, you know. That is, if we succeeded in 'taming' him.

While nice guy, what is there to tame from the beginning?But in a marriage, we want a guy who's stable and kind. So all badasses out there, you can have as many women as you want in your youth. But once the charisma and yandao-ness go away, you're all alone.

-minghui-