Trust and privacy

Cuz i love him too much, if not i wont be bothered to quarrel wid him......

Trust and privacy

Trust and privacy comes hand-in-hand. In order to give the trust, you need to open up and when that happens, your privacy will diminish. If you want privacy so you are withholding certain things from your SO. Its up to one to decide how much one trust the other party.

Trust is also about the confidence one has towards your SO. If you have more confidence with SO, you'll definite trust him/her more.Decision is all about information. The more information one has the better decision one makes. So in order for husband and wife to make better decision of course it is better to know everything.

I believe what some people mention is more on individual free space provided so that one has some privacy from their SO. Yes, such "free space" should be mutually agreed. Being married for >15yrs, it is everything (Love, feeling and responsibility). When one has responsibility to take care of the other, it comes from feeling for and loving the person. These three items are interlocking each other.

A marriage definite can last. It depends on whether one makes the effort to make it last or not. Take a look at the older generation, the divorce rates few decades ago were much lower than what it is now. If they can do it, why can the younger generation.